The rules during our meetings:

  • We tie on each other
  • We become tied to each other
  • We learn from each other
  • We show how to tie when someone asks us
  • We always have at least panties alt underpants on us
  • We focus on tying and other forms of expressions to other contexts
  • We ask someone to show how to tie without interfering with or disrupting
  • We always ask for permission before touching someone else's rep
  • We always ask for permission before touching a person
  • We always ask for consent and personal boundaries before we start tying
  • We show respect to each other by keeping a moderate tone for conversation
  • We look at other who is tying without interfering or be in the way
  • We're talking about shibari, kinbaku, ropes and bondage
  • We do not disturb the group by talking about other things, nor do we require attention for what we do
  • We do not photograph at all during our meetings
  • We help each other to make everything work well and to be a safe place for all
  • We give a helping hand if someone unexpectedly or suddenly need help